Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Do All Good Things Eventually Come To An End? (3)

Whatever pain and suffering that you may have experienced in the past belongs to the past. If it continues to exist now, it is because you keep inflicting it upon yourself repeatedly, refusing to let go of the memory. As long as you go on thinking wrongly about yourself and about life the same sort of difficulties will continue to harass you." The more the injured party focuses on his or her negative emotions, rehashing all past hurts, pain and feelings, especially when trust is shattered, it may turn into an obsession disturbing that person's sleep and daily activities, cause ill health as well as create serious problems with how they interact with people. We all know that there are things in a relationship that can be changed, but there are others that the injured party is unable to forgive. The latter will not enable a reconciliation because the memory of the hurt and pain is fresh and always there. Like will continue to attract like. In order to heal a relationship, there has to be a deep desire and a strong commitment to repair it. But if after all efforts have been made, and love is indeed lost between both partners, then one should prepare themselves emotionally and mentally for the possibility that the relationship cannot be saved and move on with their lives. So if you are not satisfied with the world you have created for yourself, then start thinking and acting in a positive way about yourself, your relationships, and all that concerns you, and in so doing you will create a new mold from which to start a new chain of events that will be more to your liking and pursuit of happiness. Amazingly, in the process, one might even meet and fall in love with someone who will help you to become more fulfilled and more deeply loved. The ultimate challenge is that we are not "at the mercy of Fate," as the expression says "Que sera, sera...what will be will be.", thus clouding any possibilities for a better future. We can neutralize this image by establishing a positive frame of mind. Self-direction is what motivates us to pick up the pieces and start all over again. In order for you to achieve whatever you set out to do, you must believe in whatever you wish to achieve, accept its possibility and confidently expect it to be realized. These truths can be applied to every area of your life, whether it be your health, home, career, job or relationships, and in doing so you will lift your thoughts, and your vision to see beyond your needs, circumstances, or conditions that surround you, which will result in fear turning to courage and confidence, anxiety to calmness , and despair to faith and hope.

With regard to: careers, material possessions etc. not necessarily so!
Suppose an individual has taken a big loss in business deals, plunging his family into a severe economic hardship. No one can admit, that this is not a devastating experience, but we can look at the flip side. Although money is essential to our existence and at times hard to replace, family and health is of the ultimate importance. One must not also forget that this individual still has the creativity and ingenuity, with which he originally started out with, and can begin another business using this same creativity and ingenuity, which will result in a much more successful and prosperous accomplishment. The bottom line to this is "Never allow you to be defeated."

To be continued: (4)

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