Sunday, January 27, 2008

Making Choices: Turmoil or Tranquility? (4)

In establishing choices whether they be good or bad they inevitably will lead to changes in your life. For some individuals making changes may come easy, while for others it is extremely difficult. Some may feel threatened by the change and resist by being constantly uncooperative, and negative in their opinions and participation, while some others, who surrender to change, feel they are a pawn in the hands of fate with no will of their own. The person of a positive mental attitude, who is in charge of himself or herself does not view change as a threat but as an opportunity to expand his or her horizons.These individuals of PMA are flexible and have self-direction. They know what their choice is about, weighing all the pros and cons related to it, deciding which will result in a better return for them, and then take the plunge by moving forward with a burning desire to win or perish. They are not hindered by self imposed limitations. They have learned the secret of uncovering the hidden talents that are within them, and developing them to its fullest.

So stop feeling upset, worried and miserable. Let go of the habit of being indecisive, which you have harbored all your life.To establish peace of mind, focus on having a positive attitude toward life, as well as developing confidence in your ability to make correct and definite decisions in any situation. Be a person of self-direction. When one changes the belief about one's self, then the outward experiences will be changed also. As I mentioned before, wanting to do something and not take action on it is self-defeating.

Making Choices: Turmoil or Tranquility? Which do you prefer.?

Robert F. Bennett
"Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself."

Goodbye for now........until the next time..............when "Mimi Speaks."

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Author of Post: Miriam Medina. I hope you have enjoyed this article. Please do not copy. You can provide a link to it if you like.

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